Two of my best friends are a guy I've known since I was 12, went through middle and high school with, and still keep in close touch with, and a girl who I met in college, immediately fell for...the feeling was mutual, the only problem was I was already with somebody and she would not feel comfortable dating a person who'd be willing to break up with someone for her.
We still stayed close, and as time went on, her romantic feelings died down, while mine increased.
When I’m with them, they cuddle so much and get mad when I ask them to stop. This is a sensitive situation all around, and it seems like no one really knows how to handle it at the moment.
The first thing you really need to do is sit down and have a conversation with your best friend, and a separate conversation with your brother.
Two of my best friends have started dating each other and although I’m happy for them, I’m starting to feel like a third wheel whenever we hang out.
It’s so weird for me to see them together romantically because we’ve always been good friends.
I was sooooooo mad, but instead of being mean, I just told them again that it made me uncomfortable. Whenever I’m with her, all she does is talk about my brother and their dates, or texts him nonstop and barely pays attention to me. Your brother and best friend were wrong to go behind your back and start secretly dating, and they’re also wrong to flaunt their relationship in your face knowing how uncomfortable you are with the situation.
After my last birthday party, I found out that they exchanged screen names with each other.Alright, so this is a pretty unusual situation as far as things like this go. I understand where you’re coming from – no one likes to feel like a third wheel.I just found out that my two best girl friends in the entire world are lesbians and that they’re dating! They seem happy and I don’t want to mess that up, but I also don’t want to feel like a third wheel. It’s totally understandable for you to feel left out and a little bummed out, even if you’re happy for your friends at the same time. They dated earlier this year, I told them it made me super uncomfortable, and they ended up breaking up.But then they went behind my back and started dating again, and I found out. I feel so awkward around both of them, so I have stopped hanging out with my best friend as much because she always invites my brother. I can definitely understand where your anger is coming from.