I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
Is he someone you can trust or should you have your guard up?
Is he going to be exclusive with you or does he want to be able to be free and do whatever he wants? So before you start to fall too hard for this dude, figure out whether or not he’s a player. Check out these 10 signs that he’s a player: This is probably the biggest sign there is that a dude is a player.
He accepts the fact that you can sometimes be irrational, petulant or unreasonable.
He knows about all your flaws and weaknesses, and he still accepts you.
Is this dude going to be seriously interested in having a relationship with you, or is he just looking for someone to fool around with?
But in general, if a guy really likes you, he will make time for you or at least make a serious effort to make time for you.
If a dude is all like, "Oh, I'm busy all weekend, how about Tuesday night?
Well at this point, the guy realizes that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.