He claims that there's nothing adulterous about this kind of activity. It seems to us that you're actually wrestling with two separate issues.
According to him, it's just another form of sexual fantasy. First, does so-called "cybersex" differ in any significant way from simple sexual fantasy?
Soon, I was spending hours in the parallel universe of cyberspace, often through wonderfully wide-awake nights, uninhibited in a way I never could be in reality.
I told no one, immersed and isolated in my secret life. In moments of fleeting clarity, I wanted to understand what was happening to me. Was it just my marriage problems, or was there something deeper causing me to behave that way?
You can see this clearly if you stop and think for a moment about the first part of your problem.
Why not register at just for fun, just to see what my chances are . We already met the first two – anonymity and convenience on the subject online-pornography.
The user also lives protected by a virtual identity, never must reveal him/herself, when things start to get uncomfortable, his dreams, desires can “disappear” with a click.
Is it really a more serious problem than, say, addiction to online pornography?
To put it bluntly, can it be regarded as adulterous, does that mean that it gives the violated partner biblical grounds for divorce?